With so much craziness going on, its important to remember a few simple things.
To most people, these events are the happiest times of their lives. it is a place to relax and loose your worries for a couple of days. personally, i've seen people of all ages at multiple events all with one common goal, to have a good time. There is a standard people in this scene use: PLur. It stands for peace, love unity and respect and its something that is unconsciously followed at all these events. There are no enemies, no people being left out because everyone is a friend for those few days.